Dear Men

I see you, I feel you, I honour you. As you feel into your unfelt parts may you sense the warmth of my love and presence holding your hand. May you feel comfort and safety to express what you need to express and retreat into your cave in times of silence. May you feel my feminine force dancing at the door to your cave, and may wave upon wave of self compassion and trust ease and guide your heart. May any parts of your being, Self and sexuality that has been shut down due to the horrors of what you are feeling and experiencing be held in my safe hands until you have felt through it all and let it go. May you know always that I am here, holding space for you to explore and heal those parts. We are rising together, we are forging a new path. I see you, I feel you. I honour you. 

Yours, devoted, She 

 
 

Full-Bodied Presence, Love & Purpose

Are you an awakening man ready to let go of the shame you hold around your sexuality and sexual desire? Are you ready to meet your woman in full unwavering presence and obliterate her in the force of your love? Yet, are you being held back by feelings of unworthiness of her love or by guilt about your true longings and cravings? Can you feel the shift in the way that women are calling to be met in love and intimacy? However, are you unsure how to rewire the stories and the limiting beliefs that play out for you in your mind on a daily basis? 

Are you at a place in your life where you are questioning to the depths of your core…

Who am I? 

The roles of the masculine and feminine have changed dramatically over the last few decades. Men are no longer the sole income earner or the most driven member of intimate partnership. So, when your value is no longer measured by what you do, your finances or your social status, how do you determine your value and worth in this world? 

You are being called to a new way of being; most powerfully you are having to rediscover your worth in new and unbounded ways. You are having to challenge everything that you have grown up understanding and believing. You are being invited to pull back the mask that you have been wearing for so long so that you can stand in full-bodied presence, love and purpose. 

I’d like to invite you to open your mind for a moment to a new way. Breathe in, allow your heart to guide your next step. Allow your inner wisdom to mentor you to a place of knowing. As awakening Divine Feminines, we value your presence and your depth of awareness far more than we value the depth of your pocket. We crave the gift of being seen, witnessed and loved for the fullness of who we are, guided by your depth of being, far greater than the masks that you hide behind. We long to feel your authenticity, your truth, your sense of mission and your open undefended heart, through your deep gaze and breath. We are so ready and willing to open ourselves fully to you. We want to give ourselves to you in full-body surrender as you open our hearts and bodies to ecstatic pleasure and love. 

 

 
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WHAT IS YOUR CURRENT REALITY?

  • Have you shut down or cut off your masculine desire for freedom through the free flow of your dark masculine force because you feel that these yearnings are wrong, shameful or dirty?

  • Do you have experiences from personal, collective cultural, past life records or ancestral lines that have left you with deep sexual wounding and trauma?

  • Do you wear a mask as a layer of protection to numb the pain, guilt, shame and feelings of unworthiness towards yourself and the acknowledgement and acceptance of Divine Love and spiritual freedom? .

  • Are you afraid of not being able to mentally, emotionally, spiritually or sexually satisfy your intimate partner?

 
 

These masks and layers of protection that you wear are disempowering you. They are not allowing you to live in your fullness, access your gifts and purpose or enable you to engage with life in intimate relationships in your full-bodied, open-hearted presence. In essence, you are cutting off the very force of life that allows you to stand fearless in the face of the death that is conscious life. These deep carnal cravings that you possess should not be pushed down or suppressed, they are pure and potent gifts of the very same force that is creation.

Cutting yourself off from the connection between your dark desires and your heart disconnects you from the possibility of being moved to ravish your woman with masculine force and aggressive passion. Instead, you begin to entertain and fantasise about controlling and dominating women in ways that will satisfy your innate needs. Or, you may have energetically shut off your sexuality and lower chakras as a way to protect yourself from feeling the pain, shame and wounding that resides there. When you come to acceptance and conscious understanding of how to utilise your masculine life force from a connected heart-centered space you will embrace the doorway into your aliveness. This allows it to live its authentic life, free from shame, guilt or fear. You will be rooted in the knowing that these darker expressions are completely natural, an invitation to clear the distortions from the pure expression. It is all part of your evolving journey to access your true essence and sovereignty.

Despite all of our best efforts, Eros will not be silenced. Eros is still here whether it shows up in secret shameful desires or secret shameful eating... in rebellious acts of sexual delight or lonely acts of sexual desperation. The erotic is in our buildings and bridges, our high art and low porn. It is what the body wants and what we refuse to give it... It is the desire swept so far under the rug that we can’t even name it anymore, yet it is still here. The erotic is waiting, curious and hungry, growing impatient for our acceptance. Ready to leap out at unexpected and inopportune moments. The domestication of our primate souls cannot stamp it out, nor the threat of stoning nor shame nor even the threat of death. Even when Eros appears to have surrendered beneath a sea of calm, measured reason and propriety it is there... diverted into the car purchase, the affair, the internet shopping spree, the constant surfing and yearning to fill the empty spaces in our souls.
— Anonymous

Are you ready to step fully into your innate desire to face and conquer death in a new way? Are you ready to awaken your heart and mind to the spiritual freedom that comes from facing your fears and letting go of anything that is limiting your capacity to love? By dismantling the person that you have created with lies, shame and fear, you will create the space to build a new person rooted in love, confidence and self respect.

 
 
 

BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY INTO DE-ARMOURING

  • Let go and release sexual trauma, wounding, sexual shame, self doubt, lack of self confidence and lack of self love

  • Deepen into your heart and access, honour and bring reverence to your primal Divine Masculine expressions and desire

  • Connect into to your personal sovereignty, calling in your own ancient wisdom of Divine love, freedom and sexual healing and awakening

  • Activate soul gifts, awakening you to your purpose and mission

  • Learn how to come into ravishment and passionate Sacred Union with the Divine Feminine

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Sexual wounding and trauma, sexual shame, self doubt, lack of self confidence and lack of self love can haunt you your entire life. When you can’t sweep your emotions under the rug any longer, you will feel the cry from your soul. It is during these moments, this truth, that you are presented with the gift to clear the blockages from your heart and create change. You have the opportunity to live from a place of openness and freedom. You can live unfettered, un-diverted and present in the moment of the beauty of life and beauty of the feminine. Surrender into the love and Sacred Union that comes from this Divine Communion.


Begin the Journey Home

This is not work for the faint-hearted. Nurturing this person takes work. It is a choice that you will need to make every single day. I offer a hand and a door for you to open into your truth, to free yourself from your wounding, trauma and limiting beliefs. This is for men who are on a committed path of self inquiry, self love and self mastery. 

I invite you to step into your Divine Masculine power; to own and harness your loving darkness. The profound space of mental, emotional, physical and spiritual oneness that we will share through the practice of Sacred Sexual Healing and Awakening will allow your fullness to be witnessed. Be held in a space of Divine love and presence where you will be able to open your heart and express, share and confess your unseen or unfelt parts in the knowing of true acceptance and honouring.

 

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